Understanding the status of your relationship…

When you want to understand the status of your relationship with somebody close to your heart, please read through.

No matter how close two people are to each other, it can always happen that they misjudge each other even if it is for a simple matter. It is not that that particular incident or that particular moment makes then do so; rather a series of happenings knowingly or unknowingly be the culprits. This can exclusively be related to the situations where one of them would not inform the other person some important news about himself.

Well, this can happen because many times when we think too much about formalities and about informing everybody without missing anyone, we often end up missing our own dudes.

If you are the culprit, and when you come to know that you have forgotten to inform him, at that very moment…

** If you feel guilty about not informing and still feel better to inform him the news at the very next moment, then the relation is in a very well structured state.

** If you get tensed that you have forgotten to inform him and if you are bit hesitant to inform the very next moment or if you want to take sometime to talk to him about it, then the relation is not in a very good fashion but this definitely shows your intension of working towards improving the relationship from your side.

** If you stay calm without any guilty feeling about it and do not want to think about informing him, then there is a serious issue both with you any with your relationship.

If you are the victim, and when you come to know that you are forgotten by your best pal, at that very moment…

** If you are surprised but still in a go and get him kind of situation, then everything is fine with your relationship.

** If you are worried but still feel happy about it and want to take sometime before talking to him about it, then you are really working towards improving the relationship.

** If you are furious and never want to talk about it with him until he speaks himself, then there is a serious issue.

Such incidents may not happen so often but when they happen we learn more about each other which obviously helps us in understanding each other better. Everyone shall understand that in either of the above mentioned cases, both are equally responsible; after all relations are meant for each other and are built by both persons.