Being loyal in marriage is not just about being loyal to each other. It’s also about being loyal to two families.
Women and men contribute equally, almost, in every called-off relationship which otherwise would have been long lived and mutually loved having put little more efforts in terms of having the emotional responsibilities towards each other’s families. Having understood the responsibilities of each other towards each other’s families has always catalyzed the relationships towards a stronger bong at its early ages itself, which eventually strengthen the bond between the two too.
It seems as if some of the educated ones are just educated about taking care of their own family by ignoring the partner’s family in some cases and in some more cases by keeping the partner’s family out of the family picture. This at most of the time shortens the life time of the love bond the two share provided the victim understands the unfair done to him or her. In some other cases there is no sense of urgency shown by some people even if their own families are being ignored by their partners or kept intentionally away. They are just happy as always and as usual without thinking much about their own families being ill treated by their partners. I pity such. That’s the biggest mistake a son or a daughter do to their own families who have lost too much in the process of bringing their kids up.
Well, up to the two and the situations.
Being loyal in marriage is not just about being loyal to each other. It’s also about being loyal to two families.
Women and men contribute equally, almost, in every called-off relationship which otherwise would have been long lived and mutually loved having put little more efforts in terms of having the emotional responsibilities towards each other’s families. Having understood the responsibilities of each other towards each other’s families has always catalyzed the relationships towards a stronger bong at its early ages itself, which eventually strengthen the bond between the two too.
It seems as if some of the educated ones are just educated about taking care of their own family by ignoring the partner’s family in some cases and in some more cases by keeping the partner’s family out of the family picture. This at most of the time shortens the life time of the love bond the two share provided the victim understands the unfair done to him or her. In some other cases there is no sense of urgency shown by some people even if their own families are being ignored by their partners or kept intentionally away. They are just happy as always and as usual without thinking much about their own families being ill treated by their partners. I pity such. That’s the biggest mistake a son or a daughter do to their own families who have lost too much in the process of bringing their kids up.
Well, up to the two and the situations.
Being loyal in marriage is not just about being loyal to each other. It’s also about being loyal to two families.
2 comments:
The whole problem starts because respective families are brought centre stage.Families in distress should be helped and taken care of but the issue should not be allowed to disrupt the family life and bond of the couple.
Pramoda,
Marriage is not just union of two individuals but coming together of two families. Most of the marriages break up due to interference of parents of either, mostly girls. A couple should be left to iron out their differences at their own without any interference unless it is likely to become violent.
Take care
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