Couple of months back I met a girl who has become a good friend of mine now. As I sit and just remembering those moments I spent with her sometime back, I remember us discussing about an interesting topic for our age group and i.e. understanding the life partner.
I’ll try to summarize our conversation of that day in my words here. Hope this will be interesting to think about!
A person can know himself/herself in a very different way than what his/her life partner knows him/her…
A person can be something to the whole world; but he/she can be something else to his/her life partner…
It is about understanding the person for what he/she is instead of going around the world to know about him/her makes the relationships perfect resulting in inspiring relationships and a good environment for the children to grow up as well.
I’ll try to summarize our conversation of that day in my words here. Hope this will be interesting to think about!
A person can know himself/herself in a very different way than what his/her life partner knows him/her…
A person can be something to the whole world; but he/she can be something else to his/her life partner…
It is about understanding the person for what he/she is instead of going around the world to know about him/her makes the relationships perfect resulting in inspiring relationships and a good environment for the children to grow up as well.
Of course, I would say this need not only be applicable for the relationship of the life partners. But the same can be adapted to many other relationships as well.
so true
ReplyDeleteTrue observations.
ReplyDeleteA person is three things....
-- how others see him
-- how he wants others to see him
-- how he sees himself
These three interplay in every measure or degree with different people. A good grasp or understanding of these principles will help ease whatever irritations or issues found in a day, in a relationship, in a life thereby creating a healthy environment of true understanding and consideration and genuine love.
Blessings to you and your family, Pram.
verily true!!...wish you a very happy holi prams:)
ReplyDeleteu got it right towards end of it i would say...
ReplyDeleteevery relationship is a discovery channel to learn more about ourselves...i think so
so true...very well written.
ReplyDeletePramoda,
ReplyDeleteRead pending posts now. When do I get lucky to taste that YUMMMY CAKE? One who can motivate people to work with their heart in it definteily deserves what is due. If one keeps this in mind, married life will be so smooth. You may like to add - For a happy married life instead of looking for perfect partner try to be one yourself. This is from a blogger friend of mine.
Take care
Hi Suresh.. thanks..:)
ReplyDeleteHI Sahana, thanks dear:)
ReplyDeleteHI Ellen, wow.. nice to see you back here and thanks so much dear for your excellent feedback on this post..:)
ReplyDeleteHi Saumya.. thank you.>:)
ReplyDeleteHi Deeps.. yeah agree.. thanks yaa
ReplyDeleteHi Ria.. thanks ya:)
ReplyDeleteHello Jack uncle,
ReplyDeletethanks for your comments..nice to know your thoughts abt my posts..;)
Cheers
Prams
Agree to what Ellen said.
ReplyDeleteBut if one is true to himself/hrself then the rest falls in place.