Neither you should say “Sorry”, nor should you expect “Sorry” for every mistake. Some mistakes are life changers, where in they do help us in understanding people, life, things in a better way than ever before. One’s knowledge lies in identifying such incidents, and one’s pleasure lies in learning from the same.
Never say sorry to convince someone; never say sorry to convince yourself; rather be happy to say sorry when you are ready to change yourself towards the mistake done.
PS: I know that both of the above said ones are not related to each other, in some way they even contradict with each other. But please note that they are mutually exclusive if we consider the situation they have to be applied.
Never say sorry to convince someone; never say sorry to convince yourself; rather be happy to say sorry when you are ready to change yourself towards the mistake done.
PS: I know that both of the above said ones are not related to each other, in some way they even contradict with each other. But please note that they are mutually exclusive if we consider the situation they have to be applied.
Very insightful words...thank you!
ReplyDeleteThis is contrary to what has been dinned into our ears since childhood- to say sorry when you hurt someone unknowingly or knowingly.To feel remorse and to let know the realisation of regret is perhaps the right way to restore relationships.I believe one must say Sorry if at fault.
ReplyDeleteExpecting a sorry is a different matter.It depends on the mental make up, the large heartedness of the individuals and their willingness to overlook hurts.
Nice Pramu that you provided a chance to think about it
Very nice thoughts written
ReplyDeleteand so the truth !!!!!
Have a wonderful weekend Pramu
Kareltje =^.^=
Anya :-)
Woww!!!! Very Well Said Dear :) :)
ReplyDeleteWish You A Very Happy Weekend Ahead :) :)
Very well said and written, so apologise one has to MEAN SORRY, not because it's expectd of them.
ReplyDeleteHave a grand week-end ypurself also.
Yvonne:
Very wise words Prams, apologies are to be taken very seriously as well as given very seriously and sincerely.
ReplyDeleteLove Di
very thoughtful thought..sumthing gr8 to think upon..very well said..!!!
ReplyDeletelovely..n well said.
ReplyDeletehey join me na,.
nice post dear :) loved it :)
ReplyDeletePardon my saying but what I feel is that the word 'Sorry' is the most misused in English language. No matter what blunder we commit, we say sorry. Does that make ammends? The physical wounds may be cured but the wounds created by words don't go away.
ReplyDeleteI liked reading your post. Thanks for sharing.
and it goes for every word..we should really mean what we say..if we say sorry we should really be sorry.
ReplyDeleteThanks for a great post Pramoda!
For one who is rash, Sorry has to be repeated or the state of affairs will be worse
ReplyDeletePleas accept my apology Prams for missing so many of your posts...it's just my own mistake... :)
ReplyDeleteMay this give me a real lesson...in life!
Hi Swapna, thank you ..:)
ReplyDeletehi partha uncle, thank you so much ..:)
ReplyDeleteHi ANya, thanks ya
ReplyDeleteHi Sahana, thanks aa..:)
ReplyDeleteHi Yvonne, nicely said..:)
ReplyDeleteHi DIana, nice yaa.. thank you :)
ReplyDeletehi madhu, thank you dear.:)
ReplyDeleteHI Pinkz.. will do ..:) srry re for the delay..
ReplyDeletehi suma, thank you >.;)
ReplyDeletehi amrit bir, thaks yaa..:) lovely said..
ReplyDeleteA new begining..well said..:) thanks yaa
ReplyDeleteHi Holy lama, yeah.. true!!
ReplyDeleteHi AMity, absolutely ok...no probs re.. even i have seen ur site many days back :(.. will try to cope up with time..:)
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