Sep 8, 2009

Take Time...!

Take time before you take any relation for granted.
If you don’t, you may not always be proved wrong;
But if it happens even once, then for your life time,
You will loose the confidence that you can be right enough!

54 comments:

  1. Hiii

    I was waiting from 4 hours to have a post. But got a little bit confused one. hahahaha

    I read somany times but still in confusion. Thats why I am taking some time to give correct reply.

    For the time being I am giving comment for the first line which I liked it.

    One should take time to take any relation with some one. If he/she doesnt take time and doesnt think before stepping for it, it may be proved sometimes they might have made a big mistakes. They may be solely responsible for their mistakes and they need to feel more later.

    Thats what I mean for now...

    So ...
    Take time before you take any relation for granted.

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    Prasad

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  2. indeed, since one cannot ever know everything about anybody, one must not assume that what is will always be. one must never take anybody for granted: all good relationships are constantly reexamined and revitalized. Often, when we are disappointed in another it is because we believed they were what they weren't. In a sense, it is we who disappoint ourselves! thanks, prams, for making me think about this.

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  3. Nothing to say, absolutely true !

    I guess this post has something connected with your life too .. it seems to deep to be considered just few lines !

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  4. never loose the confidence my dear...love yourself more than anyone else....your confidence keeps u gng..take care n god bless ya

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  5. hmm... taking everyone for granted isn't always right... sometimes it works.. but its not worth making a mistake for "sometimes".

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  6. very profound Pramoda! I read it several times before I completely got it :-)

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  7. Am still reading and trying to understand the true meaning, I'm sure I'll get there soon... :)

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  8. so true n so good. no relationship is worth taking for granted

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  9. wish i would have read this earlier Pram...

    but you know, there's no perfect relationship in this world, we only thought there are, but they're just simply illusions..:)

    coz at any one point in time, you try your best to be the perfect one for that person and end up being the imperfect one...

    it's well said...short but very meaningful...:)

    i'm into it now, ha ha ha...

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  10. beautiful di....thanks for this post...!!!

    i think i need it...dont u think so???

    thanks for writing di

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  11. soo true dear..the day u take for granted is the day u start expecting more n finally we end up disappointed n soo much of pain...n all these cos of one mistake...

    well said dear:)

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  12. How true you said girlie!
    Don't think anyone to be too close to you!!
    Ahhh!! I have experienced it many times!

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  13. This is very true. Don't take someone for granted ever

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  14. nice one dear.. very well written..U have been awarded.. "freakingly fabulous award" visit my blog dear..

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  15. Pramoda,

    True. One should not take any relationship for granted. It is always two way flow. So to have good relationship be good yourself towards that person. And most important one should never think returns in equal terms, it could be more or even less.

    Take care

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  16. HI Prasad,

    hehe..well said and am awaiting ur reply on the second part..:) imean on the remaining three lines too ..:)

    But really well said abt the first one..:)

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  17. HI Stephen uncle,

    **all good relationships are constantly reexamined and revitalized.

    MAgneficient!!

    Thanks for sharing ur thoughts and am glad that i made u think:)

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  18. HI Sourav,

    Thank You.

    yaa..in life we come across many relations, some shine and some fade away..

    Its just a thought..i'm ansolutely fine ..:)

    Have a good time..:)

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  19. HAppybirdie,

    Thanks for ur wishes yar..Love urself..:) Yes, good one.

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  20. HI Leo,

    Very well said...:)

    Thank You.

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  21. Tranquility,

    Hi...Thanks for taking time and reading it many times..so happy..:)

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  22. HI Ju,

    Thank You and i hope u would have got it by now.

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  23. HI Preetilata,

    Thanks alott..and well said:)

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  24. HI Amity,

    Thanks alott for sharing ur insight ..Am grateful for that..

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  25. HI Yamini,

    Thanks alottt... heheh ... i like you that u give me the freedome to be myself with u ..:)

    Yes, u require it dear ..:) But no probs, my sis is a good person, so she will get good things and frnds..:)

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  26. HI Shruti ,

    Thanks for sharing ur thoughts..i value them. and plz stay around :)

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  27. HI Angel, thanks alottt

    and am soo glad to have got the award :)

    Have a grt time :)

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  28. HI JAck uncle,

    Thanks alott for ur kind words..Yeah, i agree with u completely..:)

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  29. Hi Prams,
    We should always treat each other as if it would be our last day together! Love Di

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  30. HI Diana,

    Wonderful..:)
    Thank You soo much :)

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  31. oh hw true...wat an inspirational messg dear...

    every relationship needs tym :):)

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  32. Hi Pramoda,


    To write comment for remaining 3 lines, I have read post for many times .... many many times.., I cant say how many times I read. But still I was in confusion.
    I have read many times, and understood that there are 3 meanings in it with respect to the word used at the place of "DONT" and "IT".

    I dont know in what sence you have written these sentences, but after somuch of research I analysed like this. Using the combinations of those two words there I recognised the meanings as follows.

    If

    DONT = Dont take Time.
    If you don’t take Time, you may not always be proved wrong; Some times you may get success, sometimes you loose your confidence.

    IT = Wrong
    But if you have been proved wrong even once, then for your life time, You will loose the confidence that you can be right enough
    I think you have written the lines in the same sence.


    IT = Take Time
    But if you Take time even once, then for your life time, You will loose the confidence that you can be right enough.
    This means that sometimes people think that if they take time, they may loose confidence in them.

    .......

    Eagerly waiting for your comments.... :)

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    Prasad

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  33. it took me some time to understand it....
    I think u want to say.. we should never take anything for granted because it may lead to confusion later
    am I right?

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  34. HI Prasad,

    I wonder about ur patience and thanks alot for taking time and reading it many many times..:)

    Ur DONT , IT Explanation is 100 % correct.. and the last IT is not what my intension was. The first two are perfectly correct..:)

    Its always a pleasure when smeone explains what u write and spends time on understanding it ..

    Thank you ssooo much :)

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  35. HI R.S.V.

    Yes, if we take a relation for granted with in short span of time, it may lead to the loose of confidence if it proved wrong even once. and then u will loose the confidence for the life time. so take time before you take any relation for granted.

    Pramoda

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  36. u mean this for now n u mean so gud.... i mean i jus.. jus loved it... so true thoughts.. :)

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  37. Hi Prams..

    Thanks for ur comments.

    Its always my interest to read something and to analyse it that why the people have written and how it should be implemented.

    By the way, spending time on it gives more concentration...
    heheheh

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    Prasad

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  38. Yes..One who takes the relationship for granted is the one who diggs his own grave..:D (its very intensified..)..but i really mean it..! You will never get a chance to prove it again !

    Very well said Dear ..:)

    I like this pic..i want to have a top of this floral paint..:)

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  39. :) Thanks dear..:)

    Haa.. a pic is good naa..:) search for he top, if not available give for an order..

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  40. its really true pramoda...i have gone through it...keep going dear :)all posts are nice dear :)

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  41. HI Snow white,

    Thanks alottt..:)
    keep coming :)

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  42. True, thanks for making me to think over this. The line "even it happens once.......", to be true, I feel it depends on which relation we are talking about, it differs 100% from one to another. To be more particular and clear, one prefers not to have such happening in "Life partner" relationship the most, than anything else. Because some other happens in day to day life like, I am a shop keeper and I lost my 10 cuctomers, here the relation of shop keeper and customer (for a simple example, may be many others) ends, but days goes on without a big trouble.

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  43. HI Hemanth,

    welcome back bhayyaa...

    Was missing ur comments..:)

    Thanks for this..yeah, life partner case is entirely different :)

    Stay around ..ok naa..:)

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